Darling is on his way back!

与仕源在一起的日子：第1135天

A porridge reminds me of Darling.

Sometime back I was having really bad mensuration cramps and I only had cravings for porridge. That time we didn’t have our car yet, Darling came back from work via bus and he was at the S11 at AMK central. We both thought there were porridge there. Turns out it’s already closed, permanently. He called me and ask for an alternative but I didn’t had any.

I’m stubborn that way. Sometimes I only want one thing and just that one thing. He was tired, he was holding on to his very big office bag and bubble tea but he went to another market and got me the century egg porridge that I wanted.

Actually I already told him I don’t want anything than since I’m not that hungry. He gave me tons of suggestions, like fish ball noodles blah blah. But I didn’t want any of those.

When he  came back, I was surprised to see porridge.
I was really touched and that moment I’m really thinking, how on earth did I find myself a guy like him? Small little things but he warm my heart big.

I’m having mensuration cramps again today and the thought of having porridge is back again. I wish Darling was here to buy it for me. But nevertheless, I have chicken chop ‘tapao’ by my sis. Also not bad lah. Haha.

I really miss him alot.
He will be back this Thursday, I hope his work goes smoothly. Hugs.

Work have been really exhausting. Things aren’t really smooth, alot of hiccups. Let’s hope things will be fine soon.

Recently I’m having thoughts of having a baby. Darling and I have some plannings actually. It’s pretty simple. ROM > Furnish and reno our home > Customary > Make babies.
I won’t say it’s the best plan but than it’s good to have a plan. I have seen too many unplanned marriages and pregnancies resulting in a not very ideal situation. But than again, sometimes planning doesn’t mean things will go well.

Now is really not the right time. We do not have a placec of  our own yet and we are not willing to part with Cookie. No matter where we go, Cookie comes along.

Just hope that our home will come really soon

*This cramp is killing me. I’m gonna go lie down already. I miss you Darling!!!! Muacks*

与仕源在一起的日子：第1118天

I’m waiting for hubby to be back. He will reached Singapore around 10 plus and will be at my place around 11!
I’m almost packed.

Recently I’m hooked on to blinging stuffs. Some of the stuffs I blinged.

Once I start liking something I’m unstoppable. And sometimes I think my very rash character puts me into some big and small shits.

Darling dropped my magic last weekend and there’s a few dents on the phone now.
The look of it really irritates me and I wanted to change it so much. The other phone I might consider will be the Iphone but frankly I’m not a fan. However I was seriously contemplating and almost sold my magic and get Iphone. Thankfully I didn’t. I mean it’s not a good phone but overall in terms of the functions I would prefer Magic to Iphone.

Anyway I gmasked it
Will upload the photos later.

So what do you think of my blings? They are really amateur. Haha. I’m not good at them yet.
Far from good. But I bought tons of crystals again today! Might bling my camera soon!

On my way to meet a client last week I realized I lost my NRIC! It’s been awhile since I last use my white LC. When I was in the cab rummaging through my bag for something I saw a hotel pass. It’s been lying in that bag for  2 weeks already. And if I have that pass with me, it means my NRIC is not with me. True enough, it’s not with me!
I called the HR and it’s really there but the security already sent it to the police as they didn’t know who that IC belongs to. If you have seen my IC before you probably won’t recognize me too. Haha.

Anyway Darling managed to call them and get my IC back for me. Phew. No need for penalty.

Some random photos.

I took the above photos with a make up mode on my new camera. We indeed look better, right?

Some random shots from work and this is a bloody expensive cup of milo.

Last weekend we went Arab Street, I’m not sure if I wrote about this. BUT we went all the way there and all shops were closed. Actually I called up and check on the operating hours and was told they will be closing at 5pm. At that time it was already 4 plus but I still insisted on going and so we went.
Darling walked with me the whole of Arab Street, than to Textile Center and Jalan Sultan but all shops were closed. Whahahaha.
So we didn’t managed to get my stones in the end.

I miss Darling alot But I’m glad that even though he’s not in Singapore, I’m always on his mind.
He bought me epoxy glue for my blingblings! Hehe. Thanks Darling. And a usb cable for my Magic. Cuz my current one is alittle faulty.

Work has been really tiring for this week. One big event and on the 2nd day the machine broke down. Had to come out with contigency plan and thank god managed to resolve it.
I kinda like this problem solving feeling though.

Sis is in Bangkok now. Hope she’s enjoying.

Some other photos and I shall end the post. I have alot of thoughts on my mind but I’m not exactly focusing on writing now. My mind is elsewhere.

Before I end the post.
I truly hope E will find her happiness
Whatever happens, it happens for a reason. Sometimes things might not be as smooth as we wish but it might be beneficial for us eventually.

Saturday!
Halloween! But our D&D ’s theme was Glamorous Night. However…. We didn’t really look glamorous. Hehe. Just the normal usual us.

I couldn’t make up my mind what to wear and after trying I decided to go with this. But frankly I didn’t think it’s really nice on me leh and photo taking wise when it’s a full shot I looked really shapeless and preggy! Haha.

It was pouring and I really feel like just sleeping at home. Hehe. But we still went, of course. Picked Shenny & Eugene and it was funny because we went to the wrong hotel. Haha.

With Nancy.

Table game. Had to tie things as per instructed by the emcee on the ribbon. They range from things like ez link card, to ring to a 10 cent coin!

A Phua Chu Kang lookalike.

Darling and I got ’sabo’ by some of them for being the couple that just got married. So ‘pai seh’.
It was quite fun with all the games and our boss went up for the most sexy bottom. Whahahaha. I wonder who ’sabo’ her. But definitely not me!

I took videos and photos but better not post. Keke.

Shenny got herself a prize in the lucky draw! But think she prefers the Wii. Haha.
I didn’t win anything but all those who didn’t win any still get a $50 taka voucher. So in a way, everyone won something.

There’s this Picture Me photography that night and we get to take ‘glamour’ shots. But frankly… I find the pose the photographer requested for were rather ‘orbit’ leh.

I don’t  like leh.

After the D&D we went to Bishan Park, the place where Darling proposed but it’s closed for the night already. I wanted to eat the ceasar salad.
We bought some potato chips and went home for movies instead.

Some more photo collages of us and it’s the end of the post!
I still have more photos to upload and also blings that I did over the weekend

Darling’s flying again

He’s going Manila tomorrow than Bangkok on Tuesday. Be back on Friday. I’m gonna miss him so so so much.

与仕源在一起的日子：第1113天

Lack of posts! Busy at work and hooked on to bling-ing my stuffs.

We went to watch My Sister’s Keeper on Wednesday. I the book and the ending was really sad.

Before the movie, I already know the ending would be different and it’s not difficult to guess where’s the difference. I can’t help but told Darling the ending in the novel.
It’s one movie that I cried alot. The ending’s a total opposite, though it’s a better ending but I still prefer the novel’s ending as it’s more impactful.

One weekday we went for steamboat at Katong.  Initial plan was to go to the Bedok’s steamboat but it’s closed for the day though Darling insisted that it’s ceased operations.
We went to Katong with Darling’s colleague from China and the steamboat was nice too

October isn’t  a very smooth month but it’s over! Let’s hope November will be smooth sailing.

The week was really long.

Was at Orange Lantern one afternoon after I went Loreal.

Bought lunch back for the rest at Orange Lantern. Sometimes it’s a rare opportunity for us to have something nice and different. As we all know, our choices are rather limited at office.
I waited for 45 minutes for the food can?!!! My god.
Sitting down there waiting, I’m hoping for 18th Dec to come asap. And I will be in Vietnam having REAL Vietnam delicacies.

Em made super YUMMY pasta for us last Friday. It’s so damn good.

Her spagatti put mine to shame.

Friday night we went back to Hougang for dinner than we head to Loyang Tua Pek Gong!

与仕源在一起的日子：第1106天

It’s Sunday again I look forward to Friday every week and it always come slow but end fast.

Darling came back on Friday evening, he took a 1pm flight and was in Singapore late afternoon than he went to pick up our car which is as good as new now.

Went back Hougang for dinner and went to meet Kurt for coffee at AMK before heading back to my place to pick up my things.
We haven’t return the 2 DVDs! It’s been more than a week already. Keke.

Went back Hougang really late and we ate the cheese cake! Both of us finished the whole thing all by ourselves. We watched some movie while eating but I cannot remember what show we watched.
My memory’s failing me.

Had lunch at home from Saturday before meeting Kurt and we went to the Electronics Fair at Expo. Darling saw the ad on papers on Friday and there was quite a few good GPS and camera deals.

There was a real huge crowd! I bought a new pinkie casio camera and Darling got a Shinco GPS.
:):)

I gave Sis my old camera  and she say she will buy 100 dozen of undergarment for me. That’s like 1200. I shall see. Haha.

We got home around evening time for dinner. Bought some chocolate snacks too as there were sale too. But they weren’t very cheap actually.

Finally started with 巾幗梟雄 after many many weeks. I’ve been putting it off despite people telling me that it’s really good. And it’s really good. Haha. One thing about serials are that once you start you can’t stop. It will always be one more episode, than one more and one more again and again.

I’m only at the 7th episode, still have quite abit more to go.

My favorite TVB actor is no longer Raymond Lam, it’s 吴卓羲 now. Whahahaha.

Darling has a routine every Sunday morning. He meets SS for car washing session and he will get me lunch while I still in slumberland.
Had Mac for lunch today, sudden cravings.

Sometimes I really have to count my blessings. The little things that Darling did for me warms my heart and makes me feel really loved.

Took some photos of Cookie.

Remember the car accident?
Here’s the photos.

No doubt he was the one who caused the accident but I still feel alittle for the poor chap.

I’m looking forward to our Vietnam trip! And at the same time I’m looking forward to many other trips. Haha. BUT darling say we have to take things at one time and not plan so many things together. In this way we will have more things to look forward to.

He’s not going Manila!!! Hoho.

与仕源在一起的日子：第1101天

Darling’s on his way to Bangkok now, his flight is at 6.20pm so he will probably reach around 8.2opm Thailand’s time.

We just had dinner and now I’m blogging – obviously. Haha. Cookie’s lying on my lap now and I’m sleepy already. Zzz.
Gonna sleep very soon. Gotta wake up earlier tomorrow too.

We met with an acciden on our way to boxercise yesterday. Shenny & I were busy chatting as usual when suddenly there was a long ‘wham’! And we were hit from behind by some dreamer behind us.
There was this L plate car infront of us and his car died off when the lights turn green, Darling stopped in time and everything was fine for like 30 – 40 seconds? There’s actually enough time for the guy behind us to react but apparently his mind was somewhere else and he hit us.
We were really shocked because we didn’t expect anyone to hit us from behind since Darling have already stopped for quite a short period of time.

Darling was really pissed but the driver was pretty polite, he apologized to him and gave him his IC. They talked for quite sometime, Shenny & I went down to check out the cars too.
Frankly I thought our car should be in a rather bad state but it turns out that the other fellow’s toyota was the one in a bad state. He got a big dent on his bonnet whereas our bumper on surface was just a few scratches.
But when Darling came to pick us after our boxercise, he realized the side of the boot  came out and he couldn’t close the door.

He send our car to the mechanic this morning and it’s still there. Probably be there till Saturday. Anyway he’s not in Singapore too, will only be back on Friday.
Hope he manage to get a flight on Friday. I went to check the airfares to Bangkok for myself but there’s no more flights and it’s freaking expensive too. Since Darling will be back on Friday I shall be good.

Been attending the boxercise class for like 4 weeks? I really love it! It’s so fun, combo of kick boxing, aerobics and dance moves. The instructor is really funny too, spice up the lessons.
Sis joined too! But there will be no lessons for the next two weeks though.

Guess who I met at boxercise? Pxxxxxx! The world is so damn small can. And seriously I have never ever met someone so thick-skinned. After all the bad stuffs they have done, she can still put on that plastic face of hers and pretend everything’s okay.
And still have the nerves to call people up to ask for support? My god. Why are there even such people around? They are probably enjoying life now with the 400K and yet still pretend everything’s ok.

I feel like warning those around her to be careful of her and not be deceived like us. But I’m sure she have a version of the story which she tells people. It’s what she do best, put on a mask and smile.

Sometimes I wonder, does bad guys really get punished? Do we really reap what we sow?

与仕源在一起的日子：第1099天

We just had dinner!!! Don’t really  have much appetite today probably due to my menstruation and I always have weird cravings when I’m menstruating. Suddenly feel like having Long John’s, Darling came back and pick me and baby and we sat in the car waiting for him while he got us dinner and bubble tea.

The dinner was really satisfying

Last week seems like a real long week. I only miss my boxercise once but it seems so long already. We will be going for boxercise again tomorrow! I guess I can’t really stop going as I will be really lazy. Darling is going jogging with SS later, he’s starting to do some exercise too Jia You Darling! I think we really need to train ourselves, not as in make ourselves bulging with muscles but just keep fit. Even father-in-law goes jogging or brisk walking almost everyday okay! And people like sleeps the whole day away.

I’m kinda hooked on to downloading stuffs on my phone now. Whahahaha. Been downloading all the interesting, cute, funny and even ‘bo liao’ applications. Keke. Androids is really a powerful platform.

Tomorrow is 20/10/09, it’s exactly one month since we are pronounced Mr & Mrs. No doubt we are not staying together now, everything is pretty much status quo  but it does makes a difference. It’s actually a very dilemma feeling, at times I welcome this responsibility of being a wife but at times I wish we were still at the boyfriend/girlfriend dating status. During the dating period, there wasn’t that much things to think about. It’s more about being happy together and we do not have so much to think about. However when a relationship progress, there will be more things involved. Like giving up some things for others, giving up the less important things for the more important ones.
When there’s a change in our status, the important things in our life changes too. Those that are important during the dating stage are not important now and vice versa those not important in the dating stage are the important things now.

Sometimes I get alittle stress by the things happening around me and I don’t want the responsibility. I push everything to hubby and let him deal with it. I throw tantrums, I show a black face and give him attitude and sometimes I wonder when will he reach his limits. But to think about it, I guess I’m pretty alright already. I have a hubby that loves me alot, our Cookie baby who will always be there for us, a normal family with our own ups and downs, a stable job with a not too bad income. I get to travel at least twice a year and I pamper myself as and when I want to and when I can afford to.

And like what hubby always say, we suffer now but enjoy life later. We are not living for just ourselves now but also for our future, our kids. We must be able to give them a good life and be able to provide for them. We can’t just live for tomorrow.

It’s never easy maintaining a relationship, not to mention a marriage.
It takes both parties to keep things moving.